we decided from the beginning that we always wanted to "be sweet to each other". a common phrase that we remind each other of A LOT. to have a good marriage, we have learned that you really just have to remember constantly what your goal is and what kind of marriage you want to have. sometimes it is hard to always act the way you want, but that is why i'm so happy that each of us has that moment of choice. our moment where we can really decide how we want to react to certain situations. i can act immaturely and selfishly and that will get me to point A or i can smile and just say i love you and that will get me closer to point B. i'm also extremely grateful for the atonement in my life. it has helped me so much in the last two weeks. brought me a joy that has been missing, given me just a little more hope when i've been desperate for it. last night i was watching this clip and oh my gosh i just can't explain the burning feeling i had. the prophets voices were so comforting. almost overwhelmingly comforting. i'm so grateful for grant in my life. i love that we are growing to become a little more like each other. cause i just want him to think like me. just kidding. no but really. i mean girls brains are way easy to understand. right?